Here is an idea of all the mother's of daughters in their late teens, early twenties. Buy your daughter a place setting of Lenox Holiday china a year, my Mom did this for me. Now, as a grandmother, I can host large family gatherings with beautiful tablescapes and luncheons, no problem. Your daughter may not appricate it at first, as I didn't but for forty years I have been able to use this every holiday season. My mother said to me, that I would grow up and pick out my own china but this was something I would always use. I can't remember a lot of the Christmas gifts that I received and none lasted as long as this, so make this your own traditional. Long after you are gone, they will remember you when they set the table with the next generation of your family.